How to Explore Your Sexuality While Married: A Guide for Black Women Quick Answer: You can explore your sexuality while married by starting with private self-reflection, seeking discreet support, and deciding what feels right for you — without blowing up your life. Acknowledging attraction to women doesn’t mean you have to leave your marriage, come […]

For many Black women, especially those 40+, the question isn’t “Am I bi?”The question is really: Is it safe for me to say it out loud? Or maybe you’re thinking –  does it even matter because why are people in my personal business anyway?? You’ve lived a lot of life already. You’ve raised people. You’ve […]

Navigating online dating and understanding sexuality is HARD! Doing both at the same time as a bi, curious, questioning or queer woman is NUTS! It’s a struggle dealing with both MEN AND WOMEN. I remember the first time I used an online dating app. What a learning experience LOL! Who wants to swap stories? Anywhoo, I’ve […]