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Frequently Asked Questions

How do I cancel my SBNNL membership?

What is your refund policy?

Memberships are non-refundable. Please email us with the subject heading “Cancel My Membership” to cancel your subscription.

Coaching Services:
Coaching refunds will not be granted under any circumstances.

Events, Workshops, Retreats, Trips:
Event tickets are non-refundable unless specifically stated otherwise.
All deposits and payments made for retreats and travel experiences are non-refundable.

What are event RSVP fees for?

Our events are curated to bring like-minded women together. SBNNL events have limited space, therefore we have a non-refundable RSVP fee to avoid no-shows, ensure intentional participation in our space, keep our spaces exclusive, encourage openness to meeting new people, and forging meaningful connections, and also cover reservation/table fees and space rental expenses, when applicable.

I am a very private person. What methods do you use to verify and screen your potential SBNNL members?

We believe it is important to keep this community exclusive and authentic. The internet is an amazing platform but presents many challenges. Our community is quite diverse but also rather specific. We do our best to keep members aligned with our purpose. We do not disclose our verification process and it may vary among members, but social media, photos and referrals can be part of the process. All memberships are at the discretion of the “Straight”… But Not Narrow Ladies™ founders and administrators.

What makes you different from other groups geared towards bisexuals?

“Straight”… But Not Narrow Ladies™ is not your average group! We are a community of feminine bi, bi-curious, straight/heterosexuals that “dabble”, hetero-flexibles, queer, and sexually fluid women that have a desire to connect with like-minded women in real life. Your relationship status or lack thereof does not matter here. Our communities value meaningful dialogue and organic connections. Our member's content and tools support these ideas and offers engaging and interactive ways for members to connect virtually and in real life. Our events, workshops, retreats and travel experiences promote meaningful interactions in a fun and non-judgmental way. Our members have access to the SBNNL founders and are apart of safer space communities that offer support and understanding. SBNNL provides a place to be seen, heard, understood and interact with others seeking the same. 

I am a lesbian. Would I be able to join SBNNL?

If you are a feminine woman that respects our safer space and supports our community, you are welcome to join SBNNL.

What if I am not a woman of color? Would I be able to join SBNNL?

Can members suggest events and venues?

Yes! We welcome your suggestions. Please email your event or venue suggestions to with the subject heading “Event/Venue Suggestion”.

What’s the member age group?

Our members range from approximately 25-50 years old. Please be mindful this is an approximate range. 

Is the website safe?

The internet is an amazing tool but presents many challenges. Even the best applications on the market are experiencing issues with data security, but we do everything we can to protect your information. Our website uses SSL certification. We use Stripe for credit card processing, which has its own multi-layered security features and certifications. Similarly, our chat app uses data encryption and is GDPR compliant.

With that said, there's an inherent risk with all web and cloud-based communication, whether it's chat, text, video, messaging, etc. We use reputable applications that take data security very seriously, but we also encourage our members to exercise caution at their own discretion regardless of where they go on the world wide web.

I don't want to join SBNNL but how can I donate? 

“Straight”… But Not Narrow Ladies™ truly appreciates your support. Your contribution makes a huge difference in our work and our ability to extend our reach with more events for and retreats for women of color. We thank you for believing in us, our work, and our community. With you, we can continue to find our voices and know that we are not alone. Please donate here.

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"I found a new community of like-minded women of color [SBNNL] and I have to shout them out because it’s not easy navigating this world when everyone is put in boxes and made to think that’s all there is. There’s more to us than meets the eye. We can all be our whole selves if we lay down judgement and preconceived notions about people. Just live!"

“The topics discussed in the [SBNNL] chat [app] and the ease and quality of the responses is dope.”

“Definitely a trip for the books. I learned something about myself [during Girls Getaway Weekend].”

“I definitely learned some new things about myself this weekend [during Girls Getaway Weekend]. This space is so important and necessary.”

“Thank you for this group! It’s hard trying to find people open and willing to live their truth.”

“Love the ongoing education!”